Before I even start quoting things from Proverbs 31, let’s just say that many women find this proverb intimidating, or in the very least… hard to swallow. Yet, the virtues for which the woman in this proverb is praised for are definitely within the reach of women today. Some people have the mistaken idea that the ideal woman in the Bible is retiring, subservient, and entirely domestic. Not so! Let’s begin…
“Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies.
Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life.
She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.” Proverbs 31: 10-12
Stop. It’s all about character. As you read this proverb, you’ll see that this woman is an excellent wife and mother. We also are told she is a manufacturer, importer, manager, realtor, farmer, seamstress, upholsterer, and a merchant. Wow, she’s a real go-getter! How is it humanly possible to do all that? Her strength and dignity don’t come from her amazing achievements, but they most certainly are a result of her reverence to God! Search and see that her physical appearance is never mentioned. Isn’t our society obsessed with outward appearances? Her attractiveness completely comes from her character.
“She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.
When she speaks her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness.
Her children stand and bless her.
Her husband praises her.
Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.” Proverbs 31: 25-26, 28, 30
The Bible Commentary brings up an excellent thought: The woman in this proverb may not be one woman at all—she may be a composite portrait of ideal womanhood. We mustn’t see her as the model to imitate in every detail. See her instead as an inspiration to be all that we can be. Isn’t it interesting that the book of Proverbs starts out with the command to fear the Lord; and it ends with the picture of a woman who does exactly that? Her qualities are mentioned throughout the book: hard work, fear of God, foresight, respect for spouse, care for others, encouragement, concern for the poor, wisdom in handling money. When these qualities are coupled with fear of the Lord, success…enjoyment…honor…and worth are byproducts; they are all an expression of her obedience to God.
We made it through Proverbs! Can you feel the wisdom?
